I've felt this calling for many years now. That's what steered me towards joining the navy in the first place: a desire to serve those who serve. Being in active duty, being a nurse, during OIF and OEF, caring for those fresh from the field - allowed me to do just that. I felt like I was doing important work and part of a something greater. I felt like I was doing what I was meant to do.
It's been four years since I was on active duty and it's been four years that I've been yearning for a way to give back, to be involved, to continue to serve. Life happens, though, and I've been tending to my career, raising my girls, and enjoying my family. But there hasn't been a minute that I wasn't thinking about how I could give, serve, contribute, help. (Maybe I wasn't thinking about while giving birth, but you know what I mean...) I was complacent/busy and allowed my status as a reservist suffice over the last four years.
Now, that's no longer true. I was officially discharged August 23rd and so began my quest to continue to serve. There are many organizations that support our heroes, our military, so I began to research and learn about what organizations exist in our area.
My favorite one is The Wounded Warrior Project. My first exposure to the group occurred while I was on active duty. They supported our wounded warriors at every hospital these guys touched down in. They delivered backpacks filled with basic necessities: a toothbrush, a towel, a t-shirt, a pillow, socks, boxers, tear away pants (which accommodates external fixators, wounds, dressings), an MP3 player, phone cards, etc.... It's not much, but it meant the world to our patients who obviously didn't have time to grab their things before being rushed to the helo. Sometimes their families didn't arrive for a few days, so these items helped our guys feel comfortable, let them know someone was thinking of them. They also brought information, resources for the families on where to stay, where to get financial resources, how to get help. They were in the rooms as much as we were. So, I'm a fan of their work and purpose and looking to get the word out about what they do and how people can help.
Luckily, I am now in a state that is extremely vocal and active about supporting the troops and there are a lot of opportunities to be involved. The first opportunity I came across was a 5k to support The Wounded Warrior Project (WWP). A neighboring community to the West of us, called Trophy Club was holding their inaugural event to support The WWP.
Hmmm... a 5k to an inactive person was a bit intimidating, but it paled in comparison to what our troops do for us every day. I could certainly muster up the will power to do a 5k - walking - if it meant showing and giving support to our troops. The other important piece to my new found purpose is that my girls are exposed and involved. (I would be so proud if either of my girls eventually joined the military...) I quickly called to see if we could bring the kids. Yes! I explained as best I could to Bella what we would be doing and of course she was excited: a race!
(P.S. Charles has been on board as long as he's known me... and fully supported this and agreed to walk with me!)
So, the morning of, we got up and braved our first "cold" Texas morning with dozens of others. Several other walkers, kids, and strollers showed up. We registered, donned our event shirts, and ate the breakfast refreshments.
The other part of this (yes, there are more facets to this...) you should know is that I've always dreamed of being a pseudo-runner. Someone who at least enjoys running. I may never do a marathon, but I'd like to be able to run a 10k, maybe a 15k, with ease one day. I just never had the fire under my behind to do it. I kind of hoped this first 5k would be my inaugural race, too. Starting with walking. So... I was shocked when Charles said, "Why don't you jog it? I'll walk with the girls." I responded with, "Um...no. That would be nuts. I haven't prepared to run, er jog, at all. Haven't properly built up to this or stretched or mentally prepared." On and on. He said, "Go. You've always wanted to. Try it, see what happens." But... But... But... Ok.
So, I did. It was an out and back course. I got to the turn around somewhere in the last third of those who were running/jogging/not walking, chugged some water and struggling to get started again. When I passed Charles, Bella, and Elin, Charles let me know that Bella had been running nearly the whole time! Before I knew it, I was calling to Bella to come run with me. I suppose subconsciously I knew she would give me an excuse to walk and rest! So, Bella and I continued on - she walked and jogged with me the rest of the way! I did have to give her a piggy back ride for a short time, but not much. When the finish line was in sight, I told her we had to jog the rest of the way through the finish line and that she would get a medal! She was so excited! So together we crossed the finish line to throngs of cheering folks, some even in uniform. It was exhilarating and I was so proud of my Bella who received many high fives from the crowd. I can see how this can be addicting.
After several minutes, we got sight of Charles and Elin (who, mind you, was in a regular stroller since our jogger was in storage). I told Bella we had to go and run with them through the finish line. So we did and we crossed again as a family - symbolically, it felt like we crossed into a new life of military service as a family. A new chapter in the life of the Halls.
So, we've got our sights set on a Veteran's Day Run. The choices were an 11k or walk a 1 mile. Since Charles can't come and I only have a single jogger, I'm walking the 1 mile. It's to benefit Veteran charities. I thought I'd invite some of the mom's in my new mom's group. One can't come but offered to pay my registration fee. I'm humbled, truly. Another mom and her family are going to walk with me.
On the 12th, we are walk/running a 5k to benefit The Fisher House. The Fisher House organization provides housing for the families of our injured military members to stay in while they are uprooted. There was one on base where we were in Bethesda.
I'm excited about this new fire in The Halls.


